I know it is tradition to have Turkey and mashed potatoes
for Thanksgiving dinner. But to be
honest that isn’t a meal that goes over well with my crowd. Most of them don’t even like pumpkin
pie. And way back in the day before we
had kids Deric and I didn’t know how to cook too many things and looked far
away from our families. So we used to
make lasagna for Thanksgiving. Sure
friends would invite us over for turkey, but it is those quiet dinners just the
two of us cooking and eating lasagna that I remember most fondly.
One year when our oldest was old enough to go to school, but
young enough to still be brainwashed by the things they told her she decided we
needed to have a more traditional feast.
“But mom we gotta have turkey for Thanksgiving.” And, thus, we went down the traditional
Thanksgiving dinner road.
Fast forward a dozen or so years later and we find ourselves
living closer to family. Our presence is
required by multiple sides for every holiday.
After 20 years of living far away, I find the number of times we have to make a
big production from November to January utterly exhausting. Longing for those simpler days of traditional
Thanksgiving lasagna, I started thinking about the idea of a Thanksgiving
meal. My oldest, who years ago insisted
on a traditional dinner, now doesn’t eat any of it but the rolls. There is no consensus on the side dishes so
we end up making many different dishes that go half eaten and eventually get
thrown out.
Feeling as if all that cooking is for nothing on my day off,
I decided it’s time for a new chapter.
Thanksgiving dinner will never be the simple affair it was back when it
was just the two of us, but at least we can all have something we like.
So this year I asked each of my children (ages 8-16) to make their favorite dish, or at one they wanted to eat. No traditional Thanksgiving food was chosen. But we are going eat well! I am making lasagna and garlic bread…..
So this year I asked each of my children (ages 8-16) to make their favorite dish, or at one they wanted to eat. No traditional Thanksgiving food was chosen. But we are going eat well! I am making lasagna and garlic bread…..